Episode 387-Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Its Impact on Relationships with Dr. Daniel Lobel

Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Its Impact on Relationships with Dr. Daniel Lobel| 9.23.2026

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Daniel Lobel, author and internationally recognized expert on the diagnosis and treatment of borderline personality disorder (BPD), to explore how BPD can affect relationships and how loved ones can move beyond walking on eggshells.

You'll Learn

What borderline personality disorder (BPD) can look like in close relationships.
Why fear of abandonment can lead to intense emotional reactions.
How black-and-white thinking can affect relationships and self-perception.
How enabling and “walking on eggshells” can reinforce unhealthy patterns.
How setting consistent boundaries and reinforcing healthy behavior can help create healthier relationships.

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Resources

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1. Adult Children of Borderline Parents
2. When Your Daughter Has BPD: Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder

3. When Your Mother Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Guide for Adult Children

4. When a Loved One Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Compassionate Guide to Building a Healthy and Supportive Relationship

5. Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents: How to Help Your Child (of Any Age) with Borderline Personality Disorder without Losing Yourself

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